• Can, and will be, good or bad.

• Can last for years, through your work and your children.

• Can reach someone for Christ who may not be influenced by any other Christian.

• Can be the most stabilizing factor in the life of your child.

• Can be the most destabilizing factor in the life of your child.

• Can be the stress-reducer that your mate needs.

• Can be the stress-producer that results in a lifetime of resentment and heartache.

• Can be a “silent” instructor, causing someone to follow Christ.

• Can be felt throughout your neighborhood and community because of your humble acts of kindness.

• Can be a hindrance to the cause of Christ in your neighborhood and community because of your worldly and hypocritical behavior.

• Can be seen every day.

• Can be built and strengthened over many years.

• Can be ruined by one foolish act.

• Can be mingled with the influence of others, for good or bad.

• Can be good, even if someone reacts negatively
to you or hurts you.

• Can be present after you leave an area (physically),
in the form of good memories with those whom you touched.

• Can be controlled by you.

• WILL live on after you are gone from this life.
“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill
cannot be hid” (Matthew 5:14).

A few years ago, I was talking to a Christian about his commitment to God. He said he didn’t go to worship much because God had “touched him.” He stated that he took his granddaughter, but he hadn’t been to worship in three weeks. Church just wasn’t what he expected. So, I asked him, “just what did he expect?”

What Do YOU Expect of God?

Some expect God to put a stamp of approval on their lifestyle and to accept them without any change on their part. These folks might reason that since God is just and kind, He would accept them as they are. Jesus, however preached, “Repent, the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” He also stated, “Except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.” (Luke 13:3) We have to change for God to accept us.

Some may think very little of God's perspective and only think about their own. Remember, God doesn’t think like man does. (Isa. 55:8, 9) Man lives in a physical world. Often what man expects in the physical, he also expects in the spiritual. When excitement, entertainment, and pleasure are the way of the physical, some expect that in the spiritual as well. Any church that doesn’t provide those is not what they expect.

Sometimes man may think God’s ways are unfair. Some said so in the past. (Ezek. 18:25) Those living in a sinful relationship might believe it is unfair that God wants them to separate. Someone else in a dead-end marriage can’t believe that God wants them to stay together “till death do you part.” Those who are living a sinful lifestyle might consider it unfair that they must leave that lifestyle in order to get to heaven. (Gal. 5:19-21) Yet, who is it that sets the standard of fairness? Who decides right or wrong? God does.

Some may expect God to do what man is supposed to do. God cannot save a person who does not want to be saved. God cannot save someone who has not met His requirements. (Matt. 7:21) When the rich man was in torment as recorded in Luke chapter 16, he wanted someone to go to his brothers on earth to warn them. The answer was, “They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.” (Luke 16:29) Those who want to be saved must follow God's laws. Anything else is not acceptable.

We cannot expect God to strike us with a burst of Bible knowledge. It takes study on the part of man to understand the will of God. The Bereans searched the scriptures to see if the preaching they heard was accurate. (Acts 17:11) We must study God’s Word and handle it correctly. (2 Tim. 2:15) Let us pray that we always strive to do what God expects so that we have a good conscience toward Him. (Acts 24:16; 1 Pet. 3:21) God loves us so much that He puts guidelines, rules, and ways in place to help us get through this life and be in heaven one day with Him. If we follow Him, we will achieve that goal.